Heart Of The Matter - free homeschool magazine


 


 



Recently, an online friend of mine announced that she would be writing for a brand new online Christian homeschooling women's magazine. How cool is that?


Heart Of The Matter is a great place of encouragement and lots of resources. The writers are a group of average moms with the same concerns and obstacles as you. They have come together to encourage you in your walk through your children’s educational experience. The purpose of The Heart of the Matter is to provide a place for homeschooling parents and teachers to find all of the resources they desire in one convenient location.
Stop by there and check it out!


Heart Of The Matter - free online homeschool Christian women's magazine


When the Foundations are Destroyed













What's a talk show host to do for a presidential candidate?


When he has a choice of endorsing pro-socialist candidate A, pro-socialist candidate B or pro-homosexual, anti-socialist candidate C?

Ron Paul refuses to call homosexuality a sin on a recent interview with John Lofton, and we keep thinking about why God shut down Sodom. Was it over their immigration policy... or their tax policy... or was it their homosexual porneia policy?

Kevin Swanson gives a simple answer to the above question. What can the righteous do?


 


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Five Things Never to do to a Llama

 



Five Things Never to do to a Llama





  1. Never discuss dental hygiene with a llama.



  2. Never verbally threaten a llama.



  3. Never ask a llama if he was trained by Al Qaeda



  4. Never call a llama “the illegal immigrant of the American barnyard.”



  5. Never, ever use the word: “llama-burger.”




And should you be fool enough to do any of the above, remember that God in his providence has equipped llamas with two qualities which, when matched with their violent tempers rightly qualifies them as predatory animals.


The first is the ability to precision spit with an accuracy that would make an Olympic sharpshooter blush. The second is the capacity of llamas to manufacture oceans of noxious bile within the depths of their stomachs — no doubt stored near their dark hearts.


But should you find that you have succumbed to temptation and disregarded my above warnings by engaging a llama in dialogue, and should you value the company of family and friends, then please listen carefully to my counsel: The moment that diabolical creature lowers his ears — run! Run for your life. Run for the sake of generations yet to be born. Run and don’t look back.




 


Super chicks because of Jesus


   If you are trying your best to be a Titus 2 and/or a Proverbs 31 woman- a daunting task without the Lord!- perhaps you will be blessed and encouraged by a wonderful Christian homemakers group on yahoogroups. I have included the description here below.



Making It Home



Inspired by the Making It Home Magazine, and group that went with it, this list is for ladies who have a heart for God, Family and Home.




This is a group designed for ladies that dedicate themselves to being Titus 2 and Proverbs 31 women. It is a Christian group, however it is not geared towards any specific denomination.



The purpose of this group is to encourage and support like-minded ladies whose hearts are turned towards home.



The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed." Titus 2:3-5




Go here to join for free:  "Making The Home" yahoogroup



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Laughing babies


Chase those rainy gloomies away. Watch these sweeties for a minute!

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Start off the year praying for your husband



Praying for Your Husband

“She does him good….” Proverbs 31:12a
Bless your husband by praying for him!

The Apostle Paul instructed all Christians to pray for one another (Ephesians 6:18). This
includes wives’ responsibility and privilege to pray for their husbands. Earnest prayer for your
husband is good for him, for you and the spiritual health of your home (Proverbs 31:11-12).
Satan desires to destroy your husband, especially his character and his leadership in your
relationship. Trust God through prayer as you daily surrender your husband and marriage to the
Lord’s wise, loving care.


31 Days of Prayer

Day 1
Pray that your husband will grow spiritually and consider his accountability before the Lord.
Pray that he will guard his heart by developing spiritual disciplines—Bible reading and study,
prayer, meditation, scripture memorization, etc. (2 Peter 3:18; Prov. 4:23)

Day 2
Pray that your husband’s relationship with God and His Word will bear fruit in his life. Pray that
he will be a man of wisdom and understanding, fearing the Lord. (Prov. 3:7, 9:10; Ps. 112:1)

Day 3
Pray that your husband will be humble and quick to agree with God about his sin. Pray that his
heart will be tender toward the voice of the Lord. (Ps. 51:2-4; Micah 6:8)

Day 4
Pray that your husband will grow in leadership skills in your relationship— protecting and
providing for you. Pray that he will lead you wisely and love you sacrificially, so that God will
be glorified in your marriage. (Eph. 5:25-29; Col. 3:19)

Day 5
Pray that your husband will be faithful to his wedding vows. Pray that he will have a desire to
cultivate your relationship as a sign of his loyalty and commitment to you, and as a picture of
Christ’s love for the Church. (Prov. 20:6; Gen. 2:24)

Day 6
Pray that your husband will love righteousness and hate wickedness, especially the evils of the
culture. Pray that he will recognize and avoid wickedness in his own life, and if necessary, take a
clear, strong stand against evil. (Prov. 27:12; John 17:15; 1 Cor. 10:12-13)


Day 7
Pray that your husband will safeguard his heart against inappropriate relationships with the
opposite sex. Pray that his heart will be pure and undivided in his commitment to you. (Prov.
6:23-24, 26; Rom. 13:14)

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Housewives desperate for God




 


 



Have you struggled to reconcile God’s vision of virtuous womanhood with worldly myths that marginalize and mock the role of the homemaker?



Do you wrestle with cultural messages that demean the homemaker’s calling and exalt instead the emotionally androgynous power-woman — the wife whose worth is measured only by the degree of her ambition, the shape of her body, or her money-making skills? Such is the image of the “desperate housewife” that the modern media, culture, and feminism are promoting with great energy.


 


In a delightfully fresh and honest way, this book addresses these issues head-on and provides fresh vision for the hopeful homemaker. Hear a former “Christian” feminist share how she went from a die-hard homemaker-in-training to a dedicated career woman and then back again — after God gripped her heart. See the hollow counterfeit of whitewashed feminism and “me-ology” destroyed. And consider the beautiful picture painted in Scripture of the truly fulfilled homemaker who glories in the hopeful calling God created for her.










The Matt and Jennie
Chancey Family

The James and Stacy
McDonald Family

Pull up a chair, dust off the cookie crumbs, and join Jennie Chancey and Stacy McDonald as they lay aside stereotypes like the “Stepford wife” and dispel such myths as the 1950s “perfect homemaker.” Laughter and tears will flow, and hopefully you will be infused with a renewed vision for victory as a wife and mother. Discover what it means to be a passionate housewife “desperate” for God alone!


Click here to download and read the preface to Passionate Housewives Desperate for God written by Stacy McDonald.


You can buy this at VisionForum.com


Bible in everything?

 


I am frequently asked about the way we home educate. We are not a workbook or classical method family, so this confuses people as it is what the are familiar with. I am not an unschooler, in my opinion that is too lax and breeds problems. I am delight-directed and a bit traditional at the same time. The questions seem to mostly center around how I integrate so much Bible into our day. I have read a lot of homeschool books on this and that method and none of them really struck a chord. They had great ideas and philosophies, but seemed to not really ring true to what I felt the Lord wanted for His children to be educated. At one point, I gave in and spent a big chunk of change to buy the book Heart Of wisdom Teaching Approach by Robin Sampson. After reading it, I can honestly say that I was already doing a lot of the ideas in there regarding Bible focus and such. But- there was some great material for making the teaching of scripture accessible through your entire school time. I found that helpful.
In our home, my children finish their responsibilities for the morning and then read their Bibles for 15 minutes before they can have breakfast. Then we begin the more official school time. School means lots of Bible. Bible reading, study and copywork. School also means we use a writing program, language arts, math and some science. Writing and science are sporadic.
When we read the Bible, I stop and interject. It is part of the whole studying process- for us at least! I also re-read parts again right after interjecting so we get more in the flow again and also for them to hear it again with the new insight they now have. Sometimes I ask their opinions or thoughts first, but mainly I go with flow of it. God led. If you read the Bible with your family, you will sense His leading and it will work for your family however He moves it along.

We take notes during Bible time, but it is harder for my 8yr old. It is a struggle often and I need to help him with what is relevant. He does love going back and reading his notes. We get out our timelines I bought of world history and Biblical history and we get out other resources, too. Whatever seems to "fit".

I guess it should be said that if you were to use a specific curriculum, it would be your GUIDE or just a TOOL. Curriculum is really not necessary and I find the suggestions do not make a good fit for us, but they do give me ideas and the curriculum as a whole keeps me on track with a general guide.
For example, we did not make an outline of the Old Testament for lesson 1 in our curricula. We made index cards for each child and numbered them to keep track of the order they put them in. We got out the Biblical history timeline and found out the actual order of events. We put the actual order number on each index card to see how we did.
They were excited to see how they compared to the correct order and were really into studying the family tree that stretched through the timeline.
So, as you see, whatever the plan was, it can be tweaked in many ways and still get the same or similar result.

Just settle into your groove and let God take the reigns. He is the one who led you to homeschool and wants what is best for your children even more than you do. 



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God created families, not schools

"It is really just a mindset. It’s the idea that you are a family, not a school. You’re a mom, not a teacher. You don’t have a classroom. You have individual relationships with your children. Your husband isn’t a principal, because there isn’t really a school. He is the head of your household, a dad, and your number one supporter. God didn’t create schools. He created families, because that was his plan for the training and nurture of children."
    Dr. Mary Hood


 


Your husband is your gift

 


 


Your husband should be the coolest gift the Lord has or will ever give you.


We forget to show the Lord appreciation for our husband. Thanking God for him. Also, we begin to take our husband for granted in imperceptible ways. Hopefully we do not let it get too far. In our busyness we often do. We lose sight.


Okay, I know we "do" lots of little things all the time for our husbands.

I know we all tell them how much we appreciate them, how important they are to you & your children and that we tell him that we pray for him (and really do).

Can you think of something you can do just for him that is "different" today?

-- How about washing the inside windows of his vehicle?
-- Do you ever iron his shirts or pants (if he doesn't wear these kind of thing to work, how about for church?)
-- Write him a note and put it somewhere he will be surprised to find it.
-- Is there a movie or music CD you would NEVER watch or listen to, but he has been dying to?
-- Fix something to eat that you know he likes and you really don't. In my house that would be "bachelor food" like macaroni with chili. Or make "from scratch" something he liked a lot as a child but never gets now. In my house that would be Chex Party Mix or haystacks.
-- Get up early and make him a real breakfast!

When he notices this special treatment, tell him you wanted to show him that he is the coolest guy you ever met, irreplaceable, and you couldn't live without him! Telling him he is "hot" doesn't hurt either!

 




Put your heart in a stocking

 


 


It seems every year I always hear about the struggle people have with either celebrating Christmas or not and then there is always the Great Santa Debate.


I won't even get into the whole Resurrection Sunday vs Resurrection Sunday debate or the Tooth Faerie.


The issue with Saint Nicholas, I think, stems from taking the focus off of the Lord. As the sayings go: Keep Christ in Christmas and Jesus is the reason for the season.
Boy, I can I agree with that!


What do I think about Saint Nicholas? We do not shun Santa Claus. Although I certainly can understand why people wSanta worshipping Jesusould. He has become a small part of our celebrating. We talk about him as a person who was worshipful toward Jesus and how he celebrated Jesus' birth with giving. We talk about him that he lived way back when and gave gifts in a similar manner we see in scripture. The Father God gave His only Son. The wise men gave in worship to Jesus. Jesus gave of Himself. And that is why we play the Santa game (leaving a surprise gift over night). Everyone knows it is a game and not a "real person" visiting in the night. Materialism and coveting are not ever an issue. A spirit of joy, giving and thankfulness fills our hearts. It is merely a side note in our celebrating. Jesus truly is the center. Jesus is the gift.


I am so happy to have children that truly do celebrate the Lord and the true meaning of this season. What a blMake your heart a gift back to Jesus!essing they are. Each year (actually, all year) I see them desire to give to the less fortunate and pray over our gift and the recipient's life and family before giving it to them. Not only does the person(s) receive a gift, but they also receive prayers of salvation and blessings. Again, Jesus being the gift.


I hope I am finding you turning your heart fully over to the Lord this month. He loves you so much. Remember, He sent His Son just for you.




Christmas Miracle Cookies

 


   


   


 


 


Christmas Miracle Cookies


1 box Devils Food Cake mix
2/3 cup Miracle Whip
2 eggs
1 cup (8 oz) m&ms


Mix the cake mix, Miracle Whip and eggs on low. Then hand blend in the m&ms. Drop with teaspoons onto a greased cookie sheet. Bake in preheated oven at 375. Bake 9-11 minutes and let cool one minute before removing from sheet. Makes 54 cookies (I get about 50)


These cookies are not really sweet and would be amazing with Reeses Pieces instead. Texture is not crunchy but softer.




A day in the life of a kefir grain




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Every morning I make kefir for my family. Actually, the kefir grains have been making the kefir for the last 24 hours, but I strain out the kefir grains and start a new batch.



First you must start out with at least 1 cup of LIVE kefir grains. Not powder kefir starter like you can buy in a health food store. Kefir grains cannot be bought at your local healtfood store. These have got to be alive and happily will continue to reproduce forever. You can get live kefir grains for sale on Ebay or GemCultures. There are forums/boards online where you can get them free for just the cost of shipping. After learning of this, that is how I got mine. I did not pay $20 for my grains. Although, they are certainly worth it.



What is kefir?
Everything you could possibly imagine or ask is on this site here:
Dom's Kefir Making & Information



One starting hint: it takes about 2 to 3 weeks for your kefir grains to fall in love with you once you get them. They need daily batches made until you get the process down (and tweak your ratios of milk to grains) and time for them to adjust to your schedule of adding new milk. You also MUST use a blender to make a beautiful smooth kefir to drink or use in cereal.


 



Today I am dividing my grains. I have too many. I have to add too much milk to get the right consistency now because my grains have multiplied. Which is great for someone because they are the blessed recipient of my extras! I will be mailing the extra to a gal in NC. Shipping from Oregon all the way there is no problem because you add some milk to the ziplock and then place a second ziplock over that one to be sure. Then you add extra padding around that packaging to protect them before they get put in a mailer.



Here is my kefir before doing anything to it. I have left it for 48 hours instead of the normal 24, but that is okay. You can see that there is a lot of whey present. That is the yellowish liquid. That is what should happen, but today there is more whey because I let the kefir sit for an extra day.


I gently stir the kefired milk and grains to loosen them from each other just a bit. It makes straining them easier. Straining them requires a slotted spoon. The larger the slots in the spoon, the faster this process is, but the catch is that you will lose more of the tiny grains that are growing. I am really careful to watch for the "babies".

Here are some kefir grains. The are about the size and shape of popcorn.


 



After sorting through the jar with my spoon for a couple minutes, I am sure I got the majority of the grains. I place them in a glass as I pull them out. Some of the liquid is still in with the grains and fills the bottom of the glass. This entire glass is full of grains! Definitely time to divide my grains!




Now I will pour the remaining kefired milk through my spoon and into my blender. This is to catch any grains or baby grains I missed. Some people just blend the babies in with the kefir for extra health benefits. We do not.



 


 


 


 


 


When I blend the kefir, I add 3 tablespoons of sugar and hit "mix" for about 10 seconds. Then the second highest setting for 20-30 seconds. Sometimes I blend for a little longer to get it a bit frothy. At this point in the process, some people add fruit or some extract. We sometimes add frozen blueberries because we have a lot of those on hand. Usually we just drink it with the sugar and love it that way.  



After blending, someone is always waiting there by my side asking for some. If we do not drink it all, that is okay. I am putting it all (blender too) in the fridge. I just keep the blender in the fridge so I do not have to wash it so often (daily or more). Kefir keeps for a very long time.


 


Some people will wash their kefir making jar out that they make the kefir in every day. This is completely not necessary. Even a waste of time. I wash mine out about once a week or so.



When you do wash your jar, rinse it out several times with cold water to cool the jar down before adding the grains.



Now we will start a new batch. I put half of my grains back into the jar and hold back the other half to mail. Otherwise all of it would have gone back into the jar. 




Then I pour regular store bought milk straight from the jug into the kefir jar. Whole milk or 2% tastes best, but some people like to use less fat in theirs. I pour to fill my jar to about half full. This is a half gallon jar. You can get these at Walmart. Some room in it is good, as it makes it easier to slosh around a bit once or twice while kefirring. The agitation allows more contact to the milk for the grains- but this is not a necessary step.   When I have enough milk in it, I put a square of t-shirt fabric over the jar with a rubberband to keep out fruitflies and to allow the carbon gas to escape. This will sit on my counter or in my pantry until tomorrow morning when I start it all again.


Yay! This is so wonderful... and "free". No more paying $3-$4 for one quart of kefir!


 


 


 




Knowing my children

 



My sister and I went to public school as soon as we were of age, of course. We started our day leaving toward school with barely brushed hair and dressed in nonmatching clothes. Only going to "school" really meant daycare for single moms and their kids.
First off... we ate breakfast there. (Yes, breakfast.) We Mom goes to workhad school, we ate lunch there and more school. After school, we went back to the cafeteria and spent the next 2-3 hours in afterschool care. Back then it was called "Latch Key". Our entire summers were spent there, as well.


When Mom picked us up, we went home where my mother spent the little time she did have: making us dinner, cleaning, laundry, and putting us to bed.
We did not know her. I only have a few memories of my mother from when I was a girl. They are mostly of her driving us to school or washing dishes. How many more kids came out of the 70's like that?
I am here with my children all day every day. We are making memories to last a lifetime. We learn more about the love of God every day. What a gift the Lord has given me.

Courageous Boyhood

from Vision Forum...



Scripture is clear, “Where there is no vision, the people perish.” Boys need vision. We humbly offer this catalog to you and the All-American boys in your family in the sincere hope that, together, we can rebuild a culture of courageous boyhood.



Courageous Boyhood is...


 































Vision and Honor “Where there is no vision, the people perish.” The same is true of boys. Without a vision for manhood, boys will perish. But true vision is cultivated by honor. The courageous boy longs to honor his father and his mother and to not just succeed, but to succeed his godly parents.



Faith and Fortitude The first principle of courageous Christian boyhood is faith. True courage is an outgrowth of confidence in the sovereign will of God, the reflection of an abiding faith in Christ. The spirit of courageous boyhood is alive in the boy who perseveres through the many challenges of life.



Dominion and Scholarship The courageous boy is on a mission from God to take dominion over the earth. This is why he loves to learn, to investigate, to master disciplines, and to search out the mysteries of creation. His basic textbook for life is the Holy Scriptures.



Loyalty and Patriotism Behind the courage of a truly faithful boy is a gratefulness for his family, his nation, and for the tender mercies of God in his life, motivating him to demonstrate an unflinching loyalty. Therefore, he has the heart of a son and the spirit of a patriot.



Virtue and Duty It takes courage to be a virtuous boy in an impure world. But the truly courageous boy is steadfast in his commitment to remain pure in body, mind, and spirit. He will not be governed by undisciplined passions, or swayed by dangerous peer influence, and learns to stand alone and unmovable in his convictions.



Adventure and Evangelism The courageous boy is one who longs for the thrill of adventure and eschews the life of ease and sloth. This desire is not a pagan quest for self-glory, but is in pursuit of a higher cause ? the advancement of the Gospel and Kingdom of Jesus Christ.